Engagement Ring vs. Wedding Ring - What's the Difference?
So, you chose the perfect engagement ring—a big "congratulations!" is in order. But what's really the difference between engagement rings and wedding rings? And, if she loves her engagement ring so much, do you really need to get a coordinating wedding band to match? Or can she simply wear her engagement ring after you're married instead? Also, can she ever wear one (or both) of her rings on the opposite ring finger? Let's get these engagement ring vs. wedding ring etiquette questions answered, once and for all.
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1. The Difference Between Engagement Rings and Wedding Rings
Traditional engagement rings typically have one dominant stone, which either stands alone or is surrounded by additional smaller stones. An engagement ring is usually given as part of the proposal to signify engagement.
By contrast, a wedding ring is traditionally a plain metal band or a gemstone encrusted eternity band that you receive when you exchange your vows during the wedding ceremony and wear from then on. Typically, there's also a fairly significant price difference between engagement rings and wedding rings; even if the wedding band has lab diamonds, moissanite or other gemstones, their total carat weight is generally less than that of the engagement ring.
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You can, of course, throw tradition out the window. According to Taylor Lanore, a consultant and engagement ring designer for, brides are having more of a say in the choice and design of their rings. And not only are they parting with tradition, but they're opting to diversify their engagement and wedding ring selections. "People are doing whatever they want, and wedding bands offer the opportunity to have more flair," she says.
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2. How to Wear Engagement and Wedding Rings
Traditionally, you wear your engagement ring and wedding ring together on the fourth finger of your left hand. As far as how to stack them, tradition holds that you'll wear the wedding band inside the engagement ring so that it's closer to your heart.